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		<title>Interrupt your Child&#8217;s Interruption Habit</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 17:13:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Share Tweet Trying to teach your child not to interrupt can sometimes be an exercise in frustration. Telling them there&#8217;s a time to interrupt (in case of a fire) and a time to not interrupt (boredom) isn&#8217;t enough. But putting these principles into practice is easier said than done, especially for a very verbal or [...]]]></description>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>Trying to teach your child not to interrupt can sometimes be an exercise in frustration.<br />
Telling them there&#8217;s a time to interrupt (in case of a fire) and a time to not interrupt (boredom) isn&#8217;t enough. But putting these principles into practice is easier said than done, especially for a very verbal or high-energy kid. That&#8217;s why now is a good time to revisit some basic lessons about good manners and teaching your child to wait their turn to <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/personal-effectiveness/12873-do-you-speak-yourself-continuously-just-me.html" target="_blank">speak</a>.</p>
<p>First of all, set a reasonable expectation. School-aged children have a difficult time holding their thoughts for more than a few minutes.  Indicate to her as best as you can that you&#8217;ll be with them as soon as possible and then stay true to your word.</p>
<p>Develop some ideas for them to occupy themselves with while you&#8217;re on the phone or otherwise unavailable. Keep a box full of puzzles, crayons, colorful markers or other quiet toys nearby that they can only use when you have to make a call. Set snacks and drinks on an accessible level so they don&#8217;t have to interrupt you for help.</p>
<p>When you need to make a call or have an important conversation with a visitor, head off trouble by saying you&#8217;re about to phone someone or have a conversation and estimate how long you expect to talk. Ask them if they need anything before you make your call or have your conversation with your company. Then do your best to <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/goods-friends/" target="_blank">adhere</a> to that time schedule, and excuse yourself from the conversation long enough to check on them. Let them know you&#8217;ll be a bit longer if that&#8217;s the case and see if they need anything before returning to your conversation.</p>
<p>Reading is a great tool to teach manners.  Find several books on the subject then read them together. Discuss afterwards what your child learned from the story and how they&#8217;ll handle a similar situation in their life the next time it occurs.</p>
<p>And as always, children learn what they live.  Your child is very unlikely to learn not to interrupt if they hears you, your spouse, or their siblings constantly interrupting each other.  Your actions have a strong influence on your child, so be a good example and ask permission to speak before speaking, and apologize when you inadvertently interrupt.</p>
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		<title>The Advantages of Attending a Fashion School in Milan</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:04:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Share Tweet Milan is also known as the fashion capital of the world. This is the place where it all happens. In Milan, the biggest offense you can commit is having an imitation purse. This is the reason why people who want to learn about fashion often dream about attending a fashion school in Milan. [...]]]></description>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>Milan is also known as the fashion capital of the <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/11/traveling-the-world/" target="_blank">world</a>. This is the place where it all happens. In Milan, the biggest offense you can commit is having an imitation purse. This is the reason why people who want to learn about fashion often dream about attending a fashion school in Milan.</p>
<p>So what can you get from attending a fashion school in Milan?</p>
<p>1) Experience – Being in the center of the fashion <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/why-do-we-avoid-doing-what-we-love/" target="_blank">capital</a> means that you have the chance to see your education in action. You have a chance to see just how fashion works in the real world. Experience is something that you truly need when you want to be the best at something. Attending a fashion school in Milan is like attending boot camp in the middle of Iraq.</p>
<p>Experience will help you get the best jobs because experience is the best teacher around. Experience will teach you how to react in certain situations. Experience will teach you what to do and how and when to do it.</p>
<p>2) Competition – Since Milan is the fashion capital, it is only natural that people all over the place are competing with each other for the top spot. This would help you become more competitive when you are in the business. You will learn how to deal with the intense pressure of having competition breathing down your neck. You will learn how to respond to criticism by improving your work.</p>
<p>Stiff competition is the best thing that can help the development of your talent in fashion. By going to a fashion school in Milan, you are putting yourself through the test of the flame.</p>
<p>3) Discipline – Because of the high expectations of fashion schools in Milan, you will learn how to discipline yourself and this will help you succeed in life. Fashion, although it involves creativity, requires a lot of discipline in order to master. You will need to avoid various distractions and concentrate on your work. By learning how to do this, you can be sure that your talent will bring you to the top.</p>
<p>4) Opportunity – When you go to a fashion school in Milan, you will be opening your doors to all sorts of opportunities. Attending a fashion school in Milan means having the opportunity to scout the industry for when you graduate. Because of this, you will be ahead at finding a job within the fashion industry. You will be able to establish connections and get to know the players. A good fashion school in Milan will also be able to supply you with some contacts in order to get you started with your career. Now that is helpful.</p>
<p>5) Resume – If you are trying to look for work in the fashion industry, the name of a fashion school in Milan would be a fine addition to your resume. Everyone knows about Milan, and most people would equate it with high quality fashion education. Here is a little secret about resumes –companies rarely read them. Basically, if a company is hiring, the boss will just skim through your resume for any interesting detail. Having the name of a fashion school in Milan written in your resume may be just what you need to find your dream job. There are so many things that studying at a fashion school in Milan can give you!</p>
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		<title>Homeschooling The Teenager</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 00:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Share Tweet As children start maturing into adults, parents feel insecure about homeschooling. Many parents then discontinue the homeschooling process and happily hand over the reign to outside authorities. But is this really necessary? Is the strictly compartmentalized education provided in schools a better option? If social concerns are worrying you, look for interest-oriented associations, [...]]]></description>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>As children start maturing into adults, parents feel insecure<br />
about homeschooling. Many parents then discontinue the<br />
homeschooling process and happily hand over the reign to outside<br />
authorities. But is this really necessary? Is the strictly<br />
compartmentalized education provided in schools a better option?</p>
<p>If social concerns are worrying you, look for interest-oriented<br />
associations, clubs and societies. These offer a lot of support<br />
for leaders, opportunity for shared experience, and foster a sense<br />
of belonging. Make up your own group or share this responsibility<br />
with someone else. Home education support groups provide fantastic<br />
opportunities to meet your child&#8217;s <a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/technology/what-google-needs.html" target="_blank">needs</a>. This is the best way to<br />
develop intelligent, self-motivated, healthy and able young<br />
people.</p>
<p>If the growing burden of some of the higher level Math or Science<br />
seems to be beyond you, enlist the help of someone who knows more.<br />
You can even barter your own services and thus save some money.<br />
With homeschooling becoming more and more popular, support groups<br />
will have innumerable resources that help you find the right<br />
teacher for your child.</p>
<p>The underlying principle that guides homeschooling is this: any<br />
child has the innate capacity to grow, develop and <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/08/how-to-set-goals-you-will-actually-achieve/" target="_blank">achieve</a> its<br />
full potential. All it needs is the right environment and all the<br />
right answers. Be there to provide these and think twice before<br />
you turn over this responsibility to a third party.</p>
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		<title>Have Fun With a Toy Hobby</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 02:26:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>Some adults never seem to grow up.  They seem to retain their childlike wonder at the world around them.  These are the adults who have started a toy hobby. Kids like to hang around with these adults because they seem more like kids.  Sometimes having a child or a grandchild can spark an interest in toys.  Be that as it may, a toy hobby will keep a person young at heart.</p>
<p>Many women love dolls and never outgrow them.  Some prefer baby dolls, some fashion dolls, and still others go for antique or decorative dolls.  Often an interest in dolls will spill over into a craft interest, as the doll lover begins to craft clothing and accessories for favorite dolls.  Sometimes the hobbyist becomes skilled at crafting the dolls themselves.  Some types of dolls that are often hand-crafted are rag dolls and cloth bodied dolls with ceramic heads.  It is not uncommon to find older women who have an entire room of their homes filled with special dolls on display.</p>
<p>Older men, on the other hand, (and sometimes women, too) often like cars and trucks.  Antique metal cars are hot collectibles, with some older ones being quite valuable.  Matchbox cars have always been loved, but so have the large Tonka dumptruck, road grader, and bulldozer.  You can bet the grandkids will want to play with your trucks and cars.</p>
<p>A toy hobby that is extremely popular is collecting Beanie <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/intention-manifestation/24952-dead-babies.html" target="_blank">Babies</a>.  These small velour animals, made by the Ty company, each have a personality all its own.  You can find Beanie Babies in every type of animal you can think of.  A similar hobby is collecting teddy bears.  There are many Beanie Baby teddy bears, but a teddy bear collector will probably want to branch out to collect other types of bears.  In fact, many bear collectors have figurines and other items collected in addition to their teddy bears.</p>
<p>Wooden toys are popular among adults, both to craft and to collect.  There is something quaint and pleasant about a child playing with a handcrafted wooden toy.  Wooden toys make attractive home accents wherever they get dropped, which is not something you can say about the latest plastic gizmo.  People who like country decorating often prefer wooden <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/fun-recreation/26419-xmas-music.html" target="_blank">toys</a> for their kids.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to outgrow toys!  A toy hobby will keep you <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/10-lesser-known-ways-to-increase-productivity/" target="_blank">young</a> at heart and make you a favorite among the kids in your neighborhood.  Whether you collect toys or craft them, a toy hobby is something you can play around with!</p>
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		<title>Quirky After School Programs</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:14:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>With the growing interest in after school programs shown by the Government<br />
as well as parents, new and hitherto unheard of programs are being<br />
explored. In an attempt to make a child <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-art-of-effective-self-criticism/" target="_blank">aware</a> of his responsibilities as<br />
an individual and as a citizen, these after school programs make use of a<br />
child&#8217;s natural curiosity and his irrepressible energy.</p>
<p>Investigative Skills:<br />
In some schools in Kernersville, children are developing their<br />
investigative skills. Children meet with adults who introduce them to the<br />
details of fake non-violent crimes. They take notes, visit the scene and<br />
gather information. Students learn to <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/the-art-of-effective-self-criticism/" target="_blank">listen</a> to alibis, collect<br />
fingerprints and gather any other pieces of evidence. According to the<br />
principal, these activities challenge her students&#8217; problem solving<br />
skills. Children learn to think critically and to form informed judgments.</p>
<p>Fisheries and sciences:<br />
In North Carolina, children who are interested get a chance to win a<br />
scholarship through their after school activity. Here, students are given<br />
a chance to face hands-on fisheries science experiments in a freshwater or<br />
marine setting. Professionals, educators and experts from the world of<br />
Fisheries act as mentors. Students accepted into the program get a $3,000<br />
scholarship.</p>
<p>The above examples go to show that after school activities are becoming<br />
serious. They are slowly morphing into important parts of a child&#8217;s<br />
education and moving away from the fun-and-frolic-only programs of the<br />
past.</p>
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		<title>Boring After School Activities</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 04:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>Why does Lisa grumble when it is time for her to go for her <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/fun-recreation/23805-learning-play-piano.html" target="_blank">piano</a> lessons?<br />
How come Johnny abhors the sight of his skates now? After all, these<br />
children were very enthusiastic about the programs when they started off.<br />
What happened? Parents are often confused by the disturbing and often<br />
incongruous signals they receive from their children. One day the kids are<br />
excited about the new theatre class and in just a few short weeks they<br />
wail and moan when it&#8217;s time to go.</p>
<p>The first thing a family should do when a child begins resisting a<br />
previously loved activity is to listen and investigate. Do not jump into<br />
conclusions. A little bit of intelligent sleuthing is required. Ask your<br />
child what he or she does in the class. Find out what exactly is the cause<br />
of the problem. Then ask the teachers the same questions. Compare notes.<br />
You may stumble on some important clues. Usually, children start out on an<br />
activity thinking it&#8217;s all fun. But when they realize that they cannot<br />
just hang out and that they need to follow rules etc, they begin to<br />
resist. Your child may feel stifled if the program is too structured. If<br />
the discipline is too rigorous or the activity too <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/internal-motivation/" target="_blank">painful</a> (like a karate<br />
class) some children balk.  Use your own instincts. Does the program feel<br />
like fun? Would you want to attend it yourself? Are they offering enough<br />
motivation to keep the child interested?</p>
<p>The teacher-to-child ratio is also an important factor. Children need<br />
attention. If the number of teachers is just enough to handle a class, it<br />
is possible that your child is not receiving enough attention. State<br />
recommendations usually specify that there must be 1 teacher for 15<br />
children.</p>
<p>Children try to avoid problems they cannot solve. If there are no<br />
perceivable problems with the class and the teachers, perhaps you need to<br />
have a chat with your child. If your judgment says that the place is good<br />
and the activity engaging enough, then it&#8217;s time to work with your child.<br />
More often than not, social pressures may be at work here. Does your child<br />
have friends there? If she is lonely or miserable because of the lack of<br />
friends, help her find a friend. If she finds a friend, she will get more<br />
involved in the activities</p>
<p>If your best efforts do not pay off, and your child still resists that<br />
fantastic guitar classes, then it&#8217;s time to let go. Shift your child to<br />
some other program. If he or she still retains interest in guitars, you<br />
can take it up after a few months. Never force the child, especially when<br />
it comes to extra-curricular activities. Since they are &#8216;extra&#8217;, they must<br />
bring in extra happiness and extra enthusiasm too.</p>
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		<title>Bust Boredom with Kid Crafts</title>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>Have you ever heard those familiar words, &#8220;I&#8217;m bored,&#8221; coming from the mouth of your child?  If so, then kid crafts are the answer.  Provide the kids with craft materials and boredom will be a thing of the past.  Read on for ideas about kid crafts.</p>
<p>Kid crafts essential materials include paper, crayons, safe scissors, and glue.  Paper for kid crafts can include construction paper, plain typing paper, cardstock of various colors, and many other options.  Even junk mail and old magazines can make interesting art projects.  Crayons are nice for younger children, but the stores are now filled with other options, such as washable dry-erase markers, watercolor pencils, and gel pens.  Kid crafts supplies can run into money, but even on a budget there are many possibilities.</p>
<p>Other materials kids can craft with include recycled junk and found objects.  By recycled junk, I&#8217;m referring to empty cereal boxes, toothpaste boxes, cardboard from packaging, plastic containers, and even tin cans.  If you let kids craft with tin cans, however, you need to make sure the open edge of the can doesn&#8217;t have any sharp edges.  Simply file these off or squeeze them flat with a pair of pliers.</p>
<p>Found objects include leaves, twigs, <a href="http://www.personaldevelopment.ie/2007/09/personal-development-list-by-priscilla-palmer/" target="_blank">rocks</a>, snakeskins, and other natural item a child might find.  Perhaps there is a sheep farm nearby.  If so, wool scraps can often be found stuck to the barbed wire fences.  Any or all of these items can be used in kid crafts.</p>
<p>One of the most fun and popular kid crafts is making a collage.  Kids can glue anything down when making a collage.  Use heavy paper for the background, and then let the creativity begin!  For an extra challenge, a collage can be built around a theme, like food, animals, or babies.  Old magazines can be searched for just the right pictures, which can be cut out and glued to the background.  The older child might wish to cut out details from magazine pictures and reassemble them in new and interesting ways.  They might cut out interesting words and headlines and add them as well.</p>
<p>Younger kid crafts can include collages made of glued down pasta, beans, popsicle sticks, leaves, and many other materials.  Don&#8217;t forget about glitter, too.  If the budget allows only a few kid crafts splurges, remember that kids of all ages, particularly girls, really enjoy crafting artwork that includes glitter.  But whether your <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/exposed-3-myths-about-becoming-a-parent/" target="_blank">kids</a> are boys or girls, young or older, suggest some kid crafts the next time your kids are bored!</p>
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		<title>Celebrate your Child&#8217;s Uniqueness</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 17:55:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>Just like a snowflake or a fingerprint, every child is unique in their own special way. Every child has a unique way of feeling, thinking, and interacting with others. Some children are shy, while others are outgoing; some are active, while others are calm; some are fretful, while others are easy-going. As a loving and nurturing <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/social-relationships/5001-what-s-your-description-self-centered-parent.html" target="_blank">parent</a>, it&#8217;s your job to encourage them to embrace their uniqueness and celebrate their individual qualities.</p>
<p>Allow your child to express themselves through their interests.  They may find a creative outlet in theatre, dancing or art, or they may be exceptionally talented in the sciences.  Encourage them to embrace what they like to do, what <a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/money/7-tips-to-get-on-the-property-ladder.html" target="_blank">interests</a> them, and what makes them happy.  Help them realize that they don&#8217;t need to worry about being &#8216;like everyone else.&#8217;</p>
<p>Teach your child to make positive choices, and praise them for good deeds, behaviors and positive traits they possess.  Encourage them to become actively involved in their community, and introduce them to activities that promote a sense of cooperation and accomplishment.  Be firm yet fair when handing down discipline for misdeeds or misbehaviors, and make certain the rules and consequences for breaking the rules are clearly defined.  Show a cooperative, loving and united front with your spouse when it comes to discipline.</p>
<p>Accept and celebrate your child&#8217;s uniqueness. Remember that your child is an individual. Allow your child to have his or her own personal preferences and feelings, which may be different from your own.</p>
<p>And finally, encourage your child to be true to themselves by doing the same.  Show your child how to make positive choices with the choices you make, and that nobody is perfect and you too make mistakes.  Show your child that mistakes can be a great learning experience, and that they should not be ashamed or embarrassed about making them.</p>
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		<title>Benefits Of Homeschooling</title>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>Why let Tim and Lisa learn at home than send them to school?<br />
Well, first of all, you don&#8217;t have to wake them up at 7 every<br />
morning and bundle them off to school with umpteen numbers of<br />
instructions, and wait with an anxious heart till they return.<br />
Homeschooling gives you more control over the influences that<br />
affect your child. The growth and development of your child<br />
is removed from the realm of the unknown. You, and you alone<br />
can decide what your child needs to do or learn. Tailoring<br />
the curriculum to suit the needs and interests of the child<br />
is one of the most obvious benefits of homeschooling</p>
<p>Individual attention is another salient benefit of<br />
homeschooling. For instance, if Lisa needs more time to learn<br />
Math, then she can reduce the time for her English lessons.<br />
There are no fixed hours of learning per subject. This means<br />
that a child has the advantage of assigning more number of<br />
hours to the subject that seems tough WITHOUT any additional<br />
pressure. The amount of time needed to learn each subject<br />
will depend on the abilities and interests of the child.</p>
<p>The schooling of the child becomes an extended family activity.<br />
Parents get involved in every step of the learning procedure.<br />
Field trips and experiments become family activities. Thus,<br />
the child receives more quality time with his parents. The<br />
entire family shares games, chores and projects. Family<br />
closeness becomes the focus here. The child is also free of<br />
any negative peer pressure while making choices and decisions.</p>
<p>Competition is limited when it comes to homeschooling. The<br />
child does not need to prove his <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-secrets-to-improve-your-ability-to-learn-for-students-of-all-ages/" target="_blank">ability</a> with regards to other<br />
children. His confidence remains intact. Since parents have a<br />
deep understanding of their child, they can plan the learning<br />
program to pique the child&#8217;s interest. It is also possible to<br />
intersperse difficult tasks with fun activities. A tough hour<br />
with Algebra can be followed by a trip to the nearest museum.<br />
Learning becomes fun. Parents can also tailor the curriculum to<br />
suit the learning style of the child. Some children learn through<br />
reading, while others need to write, and still others need to see<br />
objects in action.</p>
<p>Homeschooling allows parents to take control over the moral and<br />
religious learning of the child. Parents have the flexibility to<br />
incorporate their beliefs and ideologies into the child&#8217;s curriculum.<br />
There is no confusion in the child&#8217;s mind either because there is<br />
no variation between what is being taught and what is being practiced.</p>
<p>Lastly, more and more parents are <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2008/08/can-spirits-help-you-win-at-gambling-a-las-vegas-field-test/" target="_blank">getting</a> disillusioned with the<br />
public school system. They believe that their children are being<br />
pushed too hard or too little. Other worrying issues pertaining to<br />
discipline and ethics also make the school system less welcome. Many<br />
repudiate the educational philosophy of grouping children solely on<br />
the basis of their age. Some parents themselves have unhappy memories<br />
of their own public school experience that motivates them to opt for<br />
homeschooling when it comes to their own children.</p>
<p>Homeschooling is the best way to teach a child if you have the time,<br />
the ability and the interest to follow through with his education. After<br />
all, nobody can understand or appreciate your child more than yourself.</p>
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		<div style="clear:both;"></div><p>With the growing interest in after school programs shown by the Government<br />
as well as parents, new and hitherto unheard of programs are being<br />
explored. In an attempt to make a child aware of his responsibilities as<br />
an individual and as a citizen, these after school programs make use of a<br />
child&#8217;s natural curiosity and his irrepressible energy.</p>
<p>Investigative Skills:<br />
In some schools in Kernersville, children are developing their<br />
investigative skills. Children meet with <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/08/living-in-las-vegas/" target="_blank">adults</a> who introduce them to the<br />
details of fake non-violent crimes. They take notes, visit the scene and<br />
gather information. Students learn to listen to alibis, collect<br />
fingerprints and gather any other pieces of evidence. According to the<br />
principal, these activities challenge her students&#8217; problem solving<br />
skills. Children learn to think critically and to form informed judgments.</p>
<p>Fisheries and sciences:<br />
In North Carolina, children who are interested get a chance to win a<br />
scholarship through their after school activity. Here, students are given<br />
a chance to face hands-on fisheries science experiments in a freshwater or<br />
marine setting. Professionals, educators and experts from the world of<br />
Fisheries act as mentors. <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/7-secrets-to-improve-your-ability-to-learn-for-students-of-all-ages/" target="_blank">Students</a> accepted into the program get a $3,000<br />
scholarship.</p>
<p>The above examples go to show that after school activities are becoming<br />
serious. They are slowly morphing into important parts of a child&#8217;s<br />
education and moving away from the fun-and-frolic-only programs of the<br />
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